What would you do?....you
make the choice
At
a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled
children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the
school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When
not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does
is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as
other children do. He cannot understand things as other children
do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"
The
audience was stilled by the query.
The
father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay,
physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity
to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the
way other people treat that child."
Then
he told the following story:
Shay
and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew
were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let
me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not
want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood
that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed
sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others
in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's
father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting
much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth
inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in
to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay
struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put
on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye
and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son
being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team
scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the
ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field.
Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just
to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as
his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth
inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases
loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled
to be next at bat.
At
this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to
win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew
that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know
how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However,
as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the
other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life,
moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at
least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily
and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the
ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the
ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The
game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder
and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay
would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead,
the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head,
out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both
teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!"
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to
first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone
yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath,
Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make
it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the
right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who
now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have
thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood
the pitcher' s intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball
high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third
base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward
home.
All
were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"
Shay
reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him
by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run
to third! Shay, run to third!"
As
Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!"
Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero
who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team
"That
day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his
face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true
love and humanity into this world".
Shay
didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never
forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming
home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of
the day!
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